A new year usually means a new avenue for change. Take this opportunity to evaluate your goals for the year and with these words of wisdom, perhaps we can help keep you on track.
Learn to let go of what was. As a natural leader, you like being in control of situations, including the bad ones. Sometimes you have to trust that life won’t lead you astray and let things go as holding on only fosters resentment for yourself and others.
Appreciate simple pleasures. Working as hard as an ox is part of your DNA, but there is a time and place for everything, especially when it comes to yourself. Take a break from your workaholic ways and smell the roses once in a while. Your psyche will thank you for it.
Be objective. As a people pleaser, your first instinct is to go along with the majority. This could lead to bad decisions and consequences. Stay true to yourself and remember that you don’t always need to be part of the herd to be well-liked.
Keep your emotions in check. Water signs are notorious for being ruled by their emotions. While this makes them the most empathetic of the signs, Cancers should take heed and remember to put common sense and rationale first.
Others matter, too. Your confidence usually puts you on the spotlight but it’s time to take a step back and realise that not everything is about you. Remember to be respectful and give credit where it is due to maintain good ties with all those around you.
Don’t lose sleep over the opinions of sheep. Caring about what others think is a human thing; but do take a moment to remember your own achievements and merits to create your own form of validation. You are wonderful, and you are enough.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whether you are faced with situations that are good or bad, it’s important to know that there is a silver lining to everything. Don’t let the negatives drag you down when you can turn every failure into a lesson learned.
Kindness is key. Scorpios tend to be intense and aggressive in all matters, sometimes creating strife with other milder signs. Remember that not everyone who wrongs you should feel your sting as it is not weakness to use a gentler approach.
Expand your horizons. You have a tendency to confine yourself to a safe space despite craving freedom and adventure. Give in to your innate nature and explore new avenues for greater personal satisfaction.
Composure in, anxiety out. Look after yourself better this year and be more aware of the times when anxiety can take the reins in your life. Doing your best is important, but self-care and awareness will play a big role in your overall health in the long run.
Out with the old, in with the new. 2019 could very well be the year that you reinvent yourself. Throwing out old habits, revamping your look and starting fresh will be beneficial to you and your personal growth in the new year.
Perception is reality. Being the dreamer that you are, it’s easy to mix up your thoughts with reality. Understanding that the way you behave affects others is an important step to becoming a better friend or partner. Take heart and your relationships will be stronger than ever.